
My husband of over 20 yrs won't stop trying to talk me into a threesome (mmf or ffm, he doesn’t care), he has been doing this for years. I have told him I have no desire to do this and don't want to discuss it anymore but he keeps pushing the issue. We haven't had what I would call the greatest marriage. He has problems with alcohol but won’t admit it. He might even be bipolar, but he refuses to believe he has any problems and won’t go to get diagnosed.
I have told him that talking about a threesome over, and over, and over, (you get the idea) makes me feel as though I am not enough, which is why I have asked him to stop asking. He still keeps asking! At this point I am feeling as though he is trying to manipulate me and is disrespectful of my feelings. Am I wrong for feeling this way?