My husband and I started date night after seeing a therapist. For me it's not fun, by the time I get the kids together dropped off to the sitter I'm exhausted. We don't have anything to talk about either. We've tried night clubs but it doesn't seem as fun with him to me, but he enjoys it and i just lie and say i had fun. I have this thing where I worry about everything, if my kids are at the sitter, then I worry about them the whole time because they are not in the comfort of their own, even though it's with someone I trust.