Hi I'm new to forum. I've known my husband now for almost 19 years. We dated in high school, wanted to the same college, dated there & broke up. Then he want to medical school got back together & broke up again. Once medical school was done he decided he wanted to be with me again. We got married in 2005. We have a 3 yr old son, and now I'm a stay at home mom. My husband has been telling me our relationship was off & what he felted we were lacking. I realized it has not been the best since our son was born. So I recognized the issues & tired to make things better, but I guess it was not enough. He still felt like he wanted to be alone, he said he did not love me the same, marriage is not for him. Now ever time we broke up it was on his terms because he needed a break. I walked away and then he came back into my life. Sometimes I felt like a fool for allowing him back. Anyway I did. He is ready to give up our family to be selfish. To do what he want to not have the responsibility of not being married. I guess my question to men & woman is should I fight or should I just give up & let him go????