Separate finances or get divorced. Your husband has banked the kid to that age and its your son's screw up. Let your son deal with his own crap. If he is old enough to get a girl pregnant he is old enough to deal with the consequences.
This is exactly the kind of situation that makes some men, me included, to say that they would not engage in a relationship with a woman with kids.
"We are we", only "we" for you is something different from your husband's "we". His "we" doesn't include your son.
This is exactly the kind of situation that makes some men, me included, to say that they would not engage in a relationship with a woman with kids.
"We are we", only "we" for you is something different from your husband's "we". His "we" doesn't include your son.