My husband and I got married about 6 months ago and at the time I was still living in Wisconsin and he was stationed in Colorado. We got married before I moved out by him. Then I had discovered he had been going to exotic massage parlors and texting escorts. I confronted him and I decided to give him another chance. We went on a couples retreat. However, he didn't take much initiative in trying to see a counselor for his problem. He wanted me to help him, yet I felt broken and needed my own help. He blamed it on feeling like he couldn't talk to me and how I don't give him much attention because I am working and going to school. He said he talked to them about work, which I really can't believe. After the retreat I found two escort numbers saved in his phone and I asked him about it. He admitted to looking them up but didn't contact them and deleted the numbers since he knew he was in the wrong. Now he had been good for about a month, and then I found he is texting escorts again. I confronted him last night and he said he was testing me because he knew I was watching and wanted to get caught. He knew I had been monitoring his accounts because of what he did. However, he decided to change his password in the middle of the day after texting these escorts so if he wanted to get caught then why would he change his password or delete the messages? He said they were talking about meeting up but he wasn't really going to. I said how could you test me when you know that's what I am watching for and I said all the trust I started getting back for you is gone. I feel like he is not going to stop and isn't taking initiative to get real help from a counselor. I am not sure what to do, but I want to be with someone I can trust to have children with. Every since we have been married I have not been happy.