Background: My husband is obsessed with his daughter's soccer team. While I understand and encourage his going to some games, I don't approve his going to every game. They take place every weekend and five hours away from home. She is attending college. He also travels to the away games. There is no time left in his life for any other endeavors or our life together. I have gone to some games with him, but when I want to do something else or spend time in our home, he leaves anyway. He is also going to his daughter's friends games at other universities. Those friends are 18 and 19 year olds whom my husband has known for three years. Recently these girls have begun texting my husband. One attends school five minutes away from our home. When I first met this woman at the end of one of the games, she and my husband hugged each other tightly and did this little up and down dance which left me speechless because he basically vigorously rubbed her breasts with his chest. He then introduced me by name and not as his wife. Last week my husband said he was meeting this woman at 930 pm because he had tickets for her father to a game. He did not ask me to go. The next day he went to an away game and stayed overnight. I found out that he exchanged texts with this woman for two hours while in his hotel room. He never even called me. To be fair the texts are innocent enough and all about soccer - his obsession. I just feel very uncomfortable. Given my husband's behavior the time I first met her. I don't think it's appropriate for him to exchange texts with his daughter's friend or meet her at night. Why doesn't he do that with her parents? Am I overreacting?