When should I draw the line regarding my husband shovling female neighbor yard. When I went outside I found him & her laughing. When he came inside after he noticed I saw him over there.... I told him it was a good gesture but it should not be a habbit and that it is not his responsibility. I am secure in who I am but the female neighbor has been known to hang out with males on the street and often my husband visits with the single men. He has sometimes gone out of his way to speak to her and she has sometimes ignored me when I spoke. She has also been known too use an elderly men for money. I think my husband should keep his distance. I also question what his true motive in helping this lady with her yard. What do you think?