My husband left me last year on our 10 yr wedding anniversary as we were fighting often and having financial difficulties. After 6 months, he returned and told me he was sorry, he loves me, that I am his everything and he would never do anything to take me for granted again.
Things were ok, we were communicating better, we fight less and he even bought me a puppy and told me he wants us to be a family, 5 weeks ago. During the time we were separated, he had become friends with an ex friend of mine. They hung out, went to dinner together but he swore to me they never had any type of physical relationship. They were just friends.
Fast forward to last night, my husband told me he loves me but he is in love with my ex-friend. He still swears they never had any type of physical relationship but he feels that he will regret it later if he stays with me when he's in love with her. She has moved away to another city and he said he will not pursue a relationship with her but he doesn't think it's fair to stay with me even though he loves me still.
He asked me what I wanted him to do and I asked that he cut all contact with this woman. He told me he cannot do that. Please help!!!
Things were ok, we were communicating better, we fight less and he even bought me a puppy and told me he wants us to be a family, 5 weeks ago. During the time we were separated, he had become friends with an ex friend of mine. They hung out, went to dinner together but he swore to me they never had any type of physical relationship. They were just friends.
Fast forward to last night, my husband told me he loves me but he is in love with my ex-friend. He still swears they never had any type of physical relationship but he feels that he will regret it later if he stays with me when he's in love with her. She has moved away to another city and he said he will not pursue a relationship with her but he doesn't think it's fair to stay with me even though he loves me still.
He asked me what I wanted him to do and I asked that he cut all contact with this woman. He told me he cannot do that. Please help!!!