Hi! I need advice. My husband is controlling about money. I'm not in agreement. He has taken me off the joint checking account. I only agreed to this to short term to help save money. I also agreed he doesn't have to give me any personal money anymore so it will help pay off a previous bill. But he laughs and says I'm never going back on the joint act. when I talk about how it is wrong. Problem is sometimes I am left without cc funds when I need to go to the grocery. I have to ask for more and a big fight ensues. I do not spend a dime of family money on myself besides food, an occasional hair appt. I make my own side money for my needs. We have both overspent/spent with out asking the other in the past. We have both contributed significant amounts of money to this relationship. We have a big family and huge bills. I don't think I'm any more wrong then him. He is just being controlling and doesn't see that this is really hurting us. Help!