I am 19 and married. I feel like I am not being respected and we are always arguing. If my husband tells me he doesn't like something I quit...but if I tell him to quit something I don't like, like him saying he is going to chain me down to the bed or pretend hitting me he won't quit. I don't know what to do. I feel like that maybe we need help from a counselor? Can someone help me with this and tell me what I should do! He has cost me a job already. Please help!