I have been with my husband for eight years and he seems to have had an issue with porn for a while. I've found porn and caught him masterbating on more than one occasion. Each time it has rocked our marriage, but I love him, so we always worked through it. Recently I came home from work and found a used condom on my sofa. He claims to have used it on himself for masterbating. I am not so convinced. The problem is really that he does not want to have sex with me at all. It is scarce and when it does happen, he isn't into it and isn't able to maintain an errection. I throw myself out there and get rejected so much that I am wondering what I should do. Is this relationship worth saving seeing as we do have a 18mo child together?