Hello. So I have been with my husband for 7 years. We have 3 children together and I just found out i am pregnant again. The last few days he has been telling me...again...how he doesn't think I love him and show him enough affection and that I pull away a lot. Plus that I think he doesnt do anything around the house and i am always saying stuff to him..blah blah. He didnt know if he wanted to be with me. Which came as a shock cause he has always loved me and has always wanted to be with me. He said he was done last night and would move out. I didnt know what to think. I told him we can try counseling and he said how is that going to help you. He doesnt even want to try!! I say how can you give up on our marriage and he said he has been doing this for years and he is happy spending time with me and loves me but cant handle me never wanting to be cuddled with him or acting like I love him. I can tell him a million times i love him but he acts like he dont believe it!! My whole life I have never been a touchy feel type of person and with kids now and school, i just am so busy and stressed that i dont always want touched. I dont know what to do. I feel betrayed in a way. We have children and i have another coming. If i had to deal with being alone i could...eventually but i KNOW this is not what he wants. Finally at 330am last night i told him i would of never thought he didnt want me anymore and that i would try to do things differently if he does as well. He said he has always wanted me but cant deal with it anymore and He said he "guesses" we can try but he doesnt think anything will change. Does that sound like lost hope or should we really try to make it work?