My husband and I have been together for 7 years married for 4. We are both 35 and have 2 children. Our sex life was amazing up until about a year before we got married but it slowly fizzled out to pretty much nothing. He has pretty much said to me he doesn't want to have sex or be intimate in any way again. He said he is happy with me and doesn't want anyone else which I do believe as he never goes out anywhere. We get on very well and are best friends. He has recently suffered depression but the sex was a problem long before this. I love him dearly, he is the perfect husband and in every other way and a brilliant father so I do not want to leave him but I am desperate to be close to him again. I have tried to be understanding and patient and when I speak to him about this he doesn't see what the fuss is about. I have always been the one with the higher sex drive so this is killing me. He wont even sleep in the same bed as me. We have a double bed and a single bed in our bedroom and whenever I ask him to come into bed just for a cuddle he refuses. I feel very alone. I have considered getting it elsewhere but I don't want to, I want to make love to my husband I'm not interested in anyone else. Does anyone else have this dilema that could give any advice?