Just wanted to get people's advice on friendships while married. How would you feel if your partner added new single people to facebook because they are friends of friends and have met in person? Some innocent flirting has gone on but your partner offers to help the person out with for example....moving or relationship advice. This women has even offered to have my husband over for "play dates" with our kids. I've never met her and she also visits my husband at work. He insists they are just friends and nothing shady is going on but I think it's inappropriate for a married man to have friendships with single women. I think married people should be friends with couples or at least offer that I meet her in person and become friends with her as well. I need advice on how to explain this to my husband without it seeming controlling. I've tried to talk to him about it and his reasoning is that he's a nice guy and likes to help people.