I have been happily married for 5 yrs. We have been together for 10. For the 1st 3 yrs we had an on and off again relationship. Then I got pregnant and we stopped playing games. (I was 17 when we began the relationship.... that's why I say games). During a time when we where off for around 2 months he was sleeping around with another girl. I knew he was dating....as was I. But when we got back together he said he never slept with anybody. About 8 years later....5 into our marriage, we were talking about random junk one night in bed. Then I was joking around saying I know how he use to sleep around with all the girls he was with when we where broken up. Then he admitted that he did sleep with only one other girl and he never wanted to tell me because he knew I would flip out. I am super confused on how to handle the situation. We were both pretty happy in our relationship. But I am the type of person that it is really hard to forgive someone over not being truthful. I am also the type of person who does not want to be married just for the children. That's why it took me 2 extra years before I married him, just to make sure he was the one. I know that if we had no children I would leave him. But we do and I am pregnant again. I know we were not together at the time, but it is really hard to deal with the fact that he married me knowing that he had lied to me. Plus the fact that he had no problem living with that lie for like 7 years. Super confused and would just like to hear other peoples point of view.