Hi- so glad to have found this forum. My husband and I are both plus- sized. But in his case he carries his weight on his belly- it is very large! Recently when we are having sex with him on top I feel as though I am being crushed and suffocated, it makes me quite panicky. When I get on top I feel flabby and get paranoid I am too heavy for him. Many sexual positions are impossible for us with hubby's giant tummy preventing proper penetration.we have always been roughly the same sizes as now, give or take 10 kilos. I am trying to she'd some weight for the summer( here in Australia) but I don't know how to broach the subject with hubby as he is highly sensitive and easily offended. Any insight or advice from anybody?