I hope someone can help. My husband and I have been together for 8 years and we have a 2 year old. I was never very loving towards him and when I get angry I explode and just let loose saying things I don't necessarily mean. I have been a terrible partner. About a month ago my husband had finally had enough after what he thought was multiple attempts to get through to me went ignored. My husband is a giver and is always looking for ways to make everyone happy. He is now not even a shadow of his former self. I started going to cousinling to try and work on my anger and emotional issues. We go to couciling together as well but he says that his goal is to work to coexist for our daughter and leave amicably. I don't know who this man is. The man I married and took for granted would never do this. His parents have an incredibly unhealthy relationship. They are together but completely separate. My family has always had an if you forget about it approach it disappears. That is why his leaving is such a shock to me. I knew I was being hurtful and cruel but in my world your family and you are always there. He also says that I am lazy. But I don't get a chance to do anything because he does it all. Communication was and is nonexistent. I think he is moving out this weekend. I will do anything to save my marriage. I want to change. I don't like myself. I was told about a weekend retreat called Retrouvaille. Has anyone heard of it. How do I interact with him right now when I am so hurt and dealing with anger issues? What do I do with our child? Please anyone. I'm desperate.