Hello. I'm hoping for some sound advice. My friends either validate me or get me more worked up. Either way, I need to know what I should do, or if it is me.
My husband has a staring problem. His friends tell me he has always been like that and that he stars at everyone. But I catch him staring at the ladies a lot though. It drives me nuts. I know we all look, but there is a limit. He calmed down a bit. But this morning as he was driving, making a left hand turn was staring at some girl in a suv with long dark hair and looked young/attractive, throughout the whole freaking turn! so let me know, Am I over reacting? and if so or not, to make a marriage work do I just ignore it? It makes me feel like I am putting myself on a lower standard of what I will tolerate though...whatever, it just makes me feel like an idiot ignoring it, like not looking at the problem.
The other problem we have is whenever he is stressed out over money he puts it out on me, with being really crabby and ready to argue about anything. Lately he has been fine. He is a good man, takes care of his responsibilities. He is a decent hubby.
Can anyone give some advice on what to do?????:scratchhead:
My husband has a staring problem. His friends tell me he has always been like that and that he stars at everyone. But I catch him staring at the ladies a lot though. It drives me nuts. I know we all look, but there is a limit. He calmed down a bit. But this morning as he was driving, making a left hand turn was staring at some girl in a suv with long dark hair and looked young/attractive, throughout the whole freaking turn! so let me know, Am I over reacting? and if so or not, to make a marriage work do I just ignore it? It makes me feel like I am putting myself on a lower standard of what I will tolerate though...whatever, it just makes me feel like an idiot ignoring it, like not looking at the problem.
The other problem we have is whenever he is stressed out over money he puts it out on me, with being really crabby and ready to argue about anything. Lately he has been fine. He is a good man, takes care of his responsibilities. He is a decent hubby.
Can anyone give some advice on what to do?????:scratchhead: