Has anyone ever heard of this? I filed for divorce from my husband who has had many many affairs over our 35 year marrage. His lawyer has counterd and said that our assests have been divided sence 2001. My lawyer asked me if I knew what that was about? I had no clue! We went on a 25th wedding anniversary cruise in 2002 and although we have seperated several times over the years because of his many affairs and abuse they were always for a short time and never legally filed. We still own a house have a joint checking and have always filed joint returns. Whats more is that I thought we were happy during those years, he had started a new job that year (2001), made more money then ever before. I just dont know what to think over this tactic. I should also say, to my face he is crying and asking forgivness and saying that he will not hold anything back from me, that he is getting his just desserts and I was a wonderful wife and deserved better.