Guess the real ? is what was he like before? Considering since you two were virgins until the honeymoon, what ways did he show affection and what do you define as affection for you? Sometimes you have to step back and think about what changed in your lives at some point in time for him to feel that way now. You think too when we first meet someone we put on our best face, best behavior. Between that we are filling so many needs at once naturally that we don't recognize whats going. It's everything is going with the flow. Over time we start to sync back into are regular scheduled program self and the things we did natural when the relationship was new falls tat the waste side. If he's saying now he's not really into kissing this is definitely a sure example of the natural things he did in the beginning if, you two were kissing before, thats not getting done now.