This is rape Conan. I’m sorry this happened to you. Many men have been arrested and prosecuted for doing this to women, it’s unfortunate women are not held to the same standards.Yeah. There is nothing quite like waking up the next day and loathing yourself for what you realize happened the night before.
The big girl happened when I was at a party with my friends but they were out of it as well and I had a reputation so they probably didn't give me a second thought.
Nothing quite like not being able to move because you are numb and having someone, you do NOT want, taking her time with you.😵
I hadn't had any more than passing conversations with the coworker. My then girlfriend/now wife broke up with me and I was distraught so I brilliantly went out and got hammered. I went where a lot of coworkers hung out and one made sure I got home but the problem is it wasn't my home...
One of the worst moments of my life was the cold feeling in my core when I woke up the next day and realized what happened.
It doesn't sound like OP's husband really wanted it from what I can glean and I know from experience that men can be taken without being able to give consent.
I did learn to never become vulnerable in certain situations again.