We have been separated since August. He had a 3 year EA/PA that I discovered 3 years ago. It's been rocky ever since. I left this past August, his verbal abuse was over the top, he was telling me that I would be happy when he was dead, and calling me a hater, hateful, etc. Just nasty.
Anyway, we spoke tonight and he said if I wasn't returning soon he wants 50/50 custody of our 13 year old dd.
I asked him to continue to let me have her slightly more than he does. Our son and son's gf live with him full time. He said no, he wants dd half time.
I asked him if he has any compassion for me? For what he put me through. And would he not let me have dd a bit more due to my being lonely.
He said that Jesus forgives him, and he forgives himself. That he will no longer beat himself up for what he did to me.
This from a man who calls me a bad Christian for not coming back to the family home.
Anyway, we spoke tonight and he said if I wasn't returning soon he wants 50/50 custody of our 13 year old dd.
I asked him to continue to let me have her slightly more than he does. Our son and son's gf live with him full time. He said no, he wants dd half time.
I asked him if he has any compassion for me? For what he put me through. And would he not let me have dd a bit more due to my being lonely.
He said that Jesus forgives him, and he forgives himself. That he will no longer beat himself up for what he did to me.
This from a man who calls me a bad Christian for not coming back to the family home.