Talk About Marriage banner
Status
Not open for further replies.
1 - 20 of 34 Posts

·
Banned
Joined
·
22 Posts
Discussion Starter · #1 ·
Okay so my husband is a serial cheater. He cheats on every year with plenty of females, and has two children from his mistress , before marriage he did the same as well. We have a 4 year old daughter.
He is also on substances and gets suspended for it too but no change and I don't even bother changing him. I have lots of female friends and we party, drink have fun.

My husband portrays himself as a devoted husband and a great family man on twitter and in public. He always talks about us on twitter/interview, he even put his me and our daughter on his public DVD, and had his instagram username as fritzes along with our wedding date and asked me to use the same username with our daughter's birthdate. And he doesn't miss a chance to show everything to the teenage fans. He even told teenagers that maybe its time for sibling for our daughter on twitter.

Now I made jewelery with my friends for my business and made mens which I used him to model them and show it to fans on twitter and instagram and now hes wearing it everywhere.
In so much cold, he is wearing half shirts to show the bracelet but when hes wearing full shirts, he isn't wearing them.
Remarkably, he chooses nothing to tweet about it. I expected him to brag about how hes wearing my bracelet but he isn't saying anything. Is he doing it halfheartedly and publicity?

Hes great looking and has lots and lots of admirers. And hes makes a huge sum of money every year and is a big name in the company.
Why?
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
7,287 Posts
And... you put this post in Coping With Infidelity because......?
You have already stated that you are just fine with him cheating on you, so what does his wearing or not wearing jewelry you made have to do with infidelity? And, if you're cool with the cheating... what difference does it make?
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
4,453 Posts
Twitter. Famous, wealthy, good looking husband...

Why am I feeling a bit de ja vu here?
 
  • Like
Reactions: EleGirl

·
Banned
Joined
·
22 Posts
Discussion Starter · #6 ·
I posted this in general discussion but did not get replies, so I posted here.
Anyway thanks for answer maricha75 but could you get descriptive?

And the other two- There are millions of good looking men/women on twitter and who are successful and on social networking websites.

If you or your hubby are not good looking, successful or do not use social network, does not mean nobody can be on it
GROW UP
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
7,287 Posts
I posted this in general discussion but did not get replies, so I posted here.
Anyway thanks for answer maricha75 but could you get descriptive?

And the other two- There are millions of good looking men/women on twitter and who are successful and on social networking websites.

If you or your hubby are not good looking, successful or do not use social network, does not mean nobody can be on it
GROW UP
How descriptive would you like?

How about:
You should try open marriage. It works!
In response to someone saying his wife puts him down and blames him for her behavior.

Or maybe this:

If you are so unhappy then leave. Why staying and gathering sympathy.???
And who cares if your spouse loves you or not. Get some friends and have fun or leave.
It isnt a rocket science
When a poster said she was in a nightmare marriage.

Or how about this:

Seriously why do you guys make such a big deal of affairs?? My husband has been having affairs on and off for 8 years, I have hit on plenty of guys at the bar and we are still living in together.
If you don't like infidelity, then LEAVE. Seriously why do you act like third world country females, who worship their husbands and cannot stand affairs.
Get a life and enjoy.
Because the OP of that thread wants his wife to stop cheating and recommit to the marriage.


Or how about your other thread where you asked why people despise cheaters:
I don't. Then why do others?
Physical and emotional cheating are such big words.
Oh! And I just LOVED this little gem! The OP asked if anyone divorced over EA that never went PA and you replied:

So? EA/PA means nothing. Why can't you let a man live in peace? My hubby has being having EA/PA flings for 8 years so what?
If you cant handle it then divorce him. Stop putting him/the mistress in bad light and gaining sympathy for yourself.
Grow up.


So.... what did you want me to elaborate on again?? :scratchhead:
 

·
Banned
Joined
·
22 Posts
Discussion Starter · #9 ·
I asked in response to my question not other questions. And yeah, websites are for solutions, not for acting like a victim of some other's deeds, if women are so distressed with their cheating husbands, they should leave them.
Whats wrong in saying this?
 

·
Banned
Joined
·
22 Posts
Discussion Starter · #10 ·
Please stop calling me bad names first, and answer what I am asking. I have no business with what others do or say. If you dont like my answer, ignore it.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
7,287 Posts
Please stop calling me bad names first, and answer what I am asking. I have no business with what others do or say. If you dont like my answer, ignore it.
Who is calling you names? Yousent me a PM, entitled "shut up" with this in the message:

sheer said:
Stop calling me bad stuff, what have I done to you?
I haven't called you bad names. All I said, in one post, was "baby girl" because, honestly, you act quite young.

As far as your question... you ask "Why?" Why, WHAT? Why does he cheat? Why does he only wear your jewelry at certain times? Why does he speak about your child and you on social media? Why, what, exactly?

And, if you want to know why about the jewelry, why post in in the infidelity forum? You are, apparently, happy in your open marriage...so what do you need to cope with? :scratchhead:
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
7,287 Posts
I asked in response to my question not other questions. And yeah, websites are for solutions, not for acting like a victim of some other's deeds, if women are so distressed with their cheating husbands, they should leave them.
Whats wrong in saying this?
I'd say the problem is when you tell them to grow up, like they have no right to be upset that the one person they were supposed to be able to trust with their life has betrayed them. Things like that betray your maturity, my dear.
 

·
Banned
Joined
·
22 Posts
Discussion Starter · #13 ·
I told you I didnt receive replies in General discussion. Thats why I sent a post here.

Anyway, I am just asking the jewelery part. Since hes prone to bragging about everything, I found it weird that he isnt saying a word about it, but in cold weather hes willing to expose his arms to show the jewelery while in full shirts or when his arms are covered especially when he knows he wont get noticed, he isn't wearing it
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
7,287 Posts
I told you I didnt receive replies in General discussion. Thats why I sent a post here.

Anyway, I am just asking the jewelery part. Since hes prone to bragging about everything, I found it weird that he isnt saying a word about it, but in cold weather hes willing to expose his arms to show the jewelery while in full shirts or when his arms are covered especially when he knows he wont get noticed, he isn't wearing it
My point is that the jewelry discussion is better served in general or ladies lounge or mens clubhouse or even social. Putting out there that your husband cheats on you all the time (though, how can it be classified cheating if you say you are in an open marriage? :scratchhead: ), and all you really want to know is "why doesn't he wear my jewelry?" CWI is for exactly what it states: coping with infidelity... not for "coping with the problem of my husband not bragging about the bracelet I made him" when you are ok with him having sex with other women.
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
7,287 Posts
sheer...so you accept that your man screws any woman who lets him.

You stay with this man.

And you want us to give you advice on how to sell your jewelry?
Yep. I think that pretty much sums it up!
 

·
Administrator
Joined
·
45,148 Posts
If he does not wear your jewelry to help promote it, it's because he does not want to.

Perhaps he does not care about your jewelry business. Or maybe he does not want you to use his name to promote it.

What does he say about it?
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
534 Posts
you guys are ALL f*cked up. your shallow relationship, that is.


i think because of your supposed social status, you think that your relationship is very nouveau.....NOT BUYIN' IT. open marriages are a pretty common thing nowadays, or haven't you heard?


then you come to the CWI forum and start a rant because your husband won't hock your jewelry.....C'MON. can't you see how ridiculous you sound?


this is one for the ages, people.


MY GOD.....ARE YOU FOR REAL???
 

·
Registered
Joined
·
545 Posts
Maybe because your jewelry looks like it should be in the $0.25 bargain bin or toy dispenser? Maybe since he has absolutely no respect for you, he does not care about what you find important. Maybe he sees that you have no respect for yourself, and cant stand to wear something made by a person like that.

Just an FYI, the couple that wrote the book "Open Marriage" split up.
 
1 - 20 of 34 Posts
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top