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Hi all, I just joined today because I'm pretty tired of being sad and what I feel is disrespected. So hubs and I have been married two yrs, together seven. We fight and make up a lot. But usually we get along really well in between fights, we date, have a great sex life, we have learned to communicate well. Lately however I feel as though he has zero respect for me. In just the past fortnight he has:
Yelled at me (swearing) at two am because our 4 y.o. was in the bed wiggling around.
Accused me of not applying our daughters exczema cream because I couldn't remember where I left the tube (again, this was in the middle of the night and I was asleep)
Called me a liar when I didn't know where his paintbrush was (I have always been an honest person)
Bought home a six pack of beer when he went to bottle shop with money from my own pocket. I hate beer, and he knows it.
Watched my brand new dvd without me while I was out. He then hogs the tv and claims he doesn't want to rewatch the dvd. When the heck am I supposed to watch it if hes always on the remote?
Calls me the c word if we disagree on something.
Cuts me off mid sentence and does not allow me to get in my opinion when we are discussing something.
Yells abuse at me when I ask when he can make a repayment on money he borrowed.
I'm sure there are plenty more examples but these are what I wrote down because they have all occurred RECENTLY. I have tried to tell him that I really don't like the way he had been treating me and speaking to me, his response is along the lines of "well I can't be as articulate as you, sorry for not being smart enough!) Despite the fact that I have told hubby it is not the construction of words and sentences I care about, its the fact that you are a jerk!! Okay, well uve written enough for now but I would really appreciate Amy advice anyone has to offer. Kind regards and TIA.
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Yelled at me (swearing) at two am because our 4 y.o. was in the bed wiggling around.
Accused me of not applying our daughters exczema cream because I couldn't remember where I left the tube (again, this was in the middle of the night and I was asleep)
Called me a liar when I didn't know where his paintbrush was (I have always been an honest person)
Bought home a six pack of beer when he went to bottle shop with money from my own pocket. I hate beer, and he knows it.
Watched my brand new dvd without me while I was out. He then hogs the tv and claims he doesn't want to rewatch the dvd. When the heck am I supposed to watch it if hes always on the remote?
Calls me the c word if we disagree on something.
Cuts me off mid sentence and does not allow me to get in my opinion when we are discussing something.
Yells abuse at me when I ask when he can make a repayment on money he borrowed.
I'm sure there are plenty more examples but these are what I wrote down because they have all occurred RECENTLY. I have tried to tell him that I really don't like the way he had been treating me and speaking to me, his response is along the lines of "well I can't be as articulate as you, sorry for not being smart enough!) Despite the fact that I have told hubby it is not the construction of words and sentences I care about, its the fact that you are a jerk!! Okay, well uve written enough for now but I would really appreciate Amy advice anyone has to offer. Kind regards and TIA.
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