My husband and I haven’t been married long. We will make 2 years this September. Been together 4 years total. Since we got married, he has threatened me with divorce 4 times. I was petrified and couldn’t bare to lose him. But the last time he said “divorce,” I had enough of it. Especially because my mom was sent home on hospice care the day he “wanted a divorce” again. He put it on the back burner bc he knew I was going through a lot with my mom..long story short, I knew going through the loss of my mom and my marriage was too much for me to handle at once, so I didn’t push the issue either. 2 months went by and I had hardly no support from him taking care of my mom. I was so hurt and bitter about it and I knew once I took some time to grieve, I would tell him I’m also ready for the divorce. He didn’t agree with my mom passing away at home and wanted her to be in a hospice care facility. We had many disagreements about that..and it was hard feeling like I was going it alone. My mom passed away April 23. By June 8, I called my lawyer, reviewed a prenup I signed only to discover he had it worded in such a way that my separate property would be half his if we can’t agree on an amount he contributed to it. He is worth 15 million. I’m worth a little less than 1. I brought this up to him and told him I needed the prenup FIXED ASAP. He refuses. I told him I want a divorce. A week a later, not even, he was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. I’m torn. I can’t help but wonder if this is karma for him not being supportive when my mom was just going through stage 4 cancer and all she wanted was to pass at home. I gave her that wish and he and I would fight about it nonstop. He told me I was being selfish and putting her before him and complained bc I slept at her home a lot and wasn’t making time for him. But now I’m expected to drop everything for him? I went out on fmla leave with work for the duration of her treatments and hospice care. He kept asking me when I was going back to work. Now miraculously, he doesn’t ask bc I take him to all his appointments! And I will be expected to take him to treatments and be there for him..when we wasn’t there for me or my mom when she was passing. He finally came through when she had 3 days left. He finally slept over with me and he was there when she passed..but for months before hand her was going it alone and felt zero support. We were not at all expecting a cancer diagnosis..the doctors thought he had really bad acid reflux. Now I feel stuck taking care of him and that sounds terrible but it’s the truth. I don’t know what to do. The right thing to do would be stick it out “through thick and thin.” And then I’m DONE but I can’t shake this resentment! I feel bad for him and I just keep telling myself we put divorce on the back burner when my mom went into hospice so I’m going to put it on the back burner now to return the favor. Does that seem right/fair? Looking for advice!! I am so torn. I don’t want to see him suffer or go through chemo and surgery. I just lost my mom to this disease. But he is also is such a crappy mood and we are bickering over everything! We were LITERALLY just about the part ways and then we get this diagnosis!?? How does this happen