I just discovered my husband has been cheating on me with a friend that is a man for 5 years. I need someone to discuss this with. We have grown apart but I trusted him and never thought he would do this. I never knew that he had an interest in men. I am not sure what I want, so much at stake(home, child) and to top it off he is still talking to this other man which I feel is turning the knife even further. Has anyone ever been in this situation.. Please give me some advice.