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I'm looking for opinions on something my husband told me after I found out he had an emotional (possibly physical affair).
First, I should mention that the other woman broke it off, not him. I asked him if he had any intention of ending the affair, and he said "no". He said that he loved us both and would have continued it as long as he could. Honestly, it makes me feel as though I were never enough for him. I'm not sure if I can forgive him, and if I do it will take a long time.
But what do you all think of this? Would you stay with someone who told you this, would you try to rebuild your marriage? fyi, we have no children and financially I could leave if I chose to. He, however, would have issues supporting himself financially.
First, I should mention that the other woman broke it off, not him. I asked him if he had any intention of ending the affair, and he said "no". He said that he loved us both and would have continued it as long as he could. Honestly, it makes me feel as though I were never enough for him. I'm not sure if I can forgive him, and if I do it will take a long time.
But what do you all think of this? Would you stay with someone who told you this, would you try to rebuild your marriage? fyi, we have no children and financially I could leave if I chose to. He, however, would have issues supporting himself financially.