My husband and I dated for 10yrs. We've been married for two. And I just found out (through my brother in law, of all people) that my husband confessed to him about 3years ago that he had cheated a few years earlier. This is something I could've got over since we both made many mistakes in the beggining of our relationship because we were young and inexperianced. By the way, this is the only time I have EVER heard of him cheating while we dated. But the fact that he said that he cheated with my only (younger) sister, That I'm having a hard time with. I haven't confronted either, and that is where my dilema stands. These are THE two people I am most closest to so even the thought of it, I can't handle. Obviously if this would've came up years ago when it happned we would have never continued a relationship non-the less marriage. If this is true I can't phantom the idea of the two people I love the most lying to me in such a way and allowing me to continue in this fantasy of love and marriage. Which is why im desperate for advice and guidance since they are the people I'd usually be going to for comfort.