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With me.
He already has a child with his ex-girlfriend. It was a child he fought for, since his ex was on the fence of abortion at the time. He's paying child support and since he's military, it's not often we get to see his kid.
When I got married to him, I knew about all of this of course. But we also agreed that we wanted a big family with each other as well.
Lately, we've been talking about it, and he's changed his mind. He says he doesn't want anymore children, because "after the first one, nothing else matters." (And he said this while we've been talking, not fighting. He's military but he hasn't been deployed either.) He's insisting I go on birth control and won't touch me until I do, and he has become pro-choice if an "accident" does occurs with me. WTF?! That really hurts me. Although I'm not showing it, I'm getting crazy jealous and hurt because I feel like I'm not worthy to have his children, but his ex is. Also I'm pissed because we had plans together, that's why I wanted to marry him because of our future together but he's changed a part that means a lot to me.
When I took those vows I meant them. Til death do us part. Now I don't know what to do... Any help would be most appreciated, thank you.
He already has a child with his ex-girlfriend. It was a child he fought for, since his ex was on the fence of abortion at the time. He's paying child support and since he's military, it's not often we get to see his kid.
When I got married to him, I knew about all of this of course. But we also agreed that we wanted a big family with each other as well.
Lately, we've been talking about it, and he's changed his mind. He says he doesn't want anymore children, because "after the first one, nothing else matters." (And he said this while we've been talking, not fighting. He's military but he hasn't been deployed either.) He's insisting I go on birth control and won't touch me until I do, and he has become pro-choice if an "accident" does occurs with me. WTF?! That really hurts me. Although I'm not showing it, I'm getting crazy jealous and hurt because I feel like I'm not worthy to have his children, but his ex is. Also I'm pissed because we had plans together, that's why I wanted to marry him because of our future together but he's changed a part that means a lot to me.
When I took those vows I meant them. Til death do us part. Now I don't know what to do... Any help would be most appreciated, thank you.