Married six yrs two beautiful kids......found text message scheduling to meet for sex with a mutual good friend and our sitter! Both went on the defense blamed me that I was crazy and it was an inside joke.....there was nothing funny about it! Friend has since vanished from my life....wonder why. Fast forward about a week ..... He was on his phone I took it (its always locked) so I had to take it while he was in it already.....told him if you have nothing to hide there is no reason you shouldn't let me look thru it for peace of mind two minutes into looking with him watching I was about to go into a chat app....he grabbed from me we literally struggled over it and I smashed it to the floor......psycho I know but I had my reason.....he yelled blah blah blah...left broken phone on kitchen counter....I removed his SD SIM card.......note to non computer savvy people.....YES deleted photos and texts CAN be recovered! And so I did a data recovery of his deleted info to my laptop.......expecting to find more texts......instead shock of a life time.....self taken pics of Multiple different woman giving him blow jobs and sticking it inside them one he was with two girls and one took a pic of him doing the other girl bent over the same couch girl one just sucked his penis on...kneeling non the less on his softball pants I'm sure he had asked me to make sure they were clean for his game! No condoms either! Just received my blood and urine to be tested for everything under the sun and thank GOD they are all negative! HIV needs a recheck in 6mo to be in the clear completely but first is negative.........I've lost 20ponds and finally after 5 weeks been able to eat solid food without puking....thank goodness soup and ensure was getting old!
I have NOT confronted him yet. Trying to be strong for my toddlers and get thru Christmas and my sons third bday this month also.....however he knows something up.
I was cleaning the kitchen floor when he came downstairs and whipped it out while I was picking up crumbs.....I just looked at him and snapped "if I do will you take a picture?" He said what why?
I just walked away that was 8am he went straight to the couch and layer there until 430pm........not a word. Then got up went upstairs and cleaned all three bedrooms...complete with moving furniture beds etc to vacuum......this is unheard of he never cleans anything! I guess guilt.....however my mothers first thought was...he's looking for something bc he has no idea how you know! Hmmmmmmmm
The dr gave me Zoloft and Xanax to calm down to get through until I confront him and I scheduled a therapist /psychologist for this week to help process and learn the best way to confront him to make it to my advantage.....I mean its not "are you cheating" it's I have all the freaking pictures you pig!!!!!!!!!
Anyone else have ideas to cope for the kids sake!?
Anyone ever find this kind of proof?
Help and suggestions welcome......five weeks of processing and I can't cry there's nothing left inside.....it's like I'm just comfortably numb......
I have NOT confronted him yet. Trying to be strong for my toddlers and get thru Christmas and my sons third bday this month also.....however he knows something up.
I was cleaning the kitchen floor when he came downstairs and whipped it out while I was picking up crumbs.....I just looked at him and snapped "if I do will you take a picture?" He said what why?
I just walked away that was 8am he went straight to the couch and layer there until 430pm........not a word. Then got up went upstairs and cleaned all three bedrooms...complete with moving furniture beds etc to vacuum......this is unheard of he never cleans anything! I guess guilt.....however my mothers first thought was...he's looking for something bc he has no idea how you know! Hmmmmmmmm
The dr gave me Zoloft and Xanax to calm down to get through until I confront him and I scheduled a therapist /psychologist for this week to help process and learn the best way to confront him to make it to my advantage.....I mean its not "are you cheating" it's I have all the freaking pictures you pig!!!!!!!!!
Anyone else have ideas to cope for the kids sake!?
Anyone ever find this kind of proof?
Help and suggestions welcome......five weeks of processing and I can't cry there's nothing left inside.....it's like I'm just comfortably numb......