I'm upset right now and don't know what to do. My husband is a spender. He has a good job, makes good money, but spends much more then he makes. When he maxes out a credit card, he opens up another one. He won't eat "bag lunches" but I eat Ramen noodles. I work one full time and 2 part time jobs. We each work about 12 hours/day. I can work my 2 part time jobs with my little girls with me, so I don't think he considers them jobs. We make good money. I have had issues with credit cards in the past, but I was honest with him about it. I spent alot of money because of his very high child support, and then because we were having marital issues and I was trying to make myself feel better. We BOTH had the same amount of debt, but we did a re-fi and paid off mine. We agreed to be more careful. But he started hiding money, and credit cards and we're drowing. I found another cc bill that was to the max. I need to confront him. Any advice on what to say? As I said, I'm not completely innocent when it comes to money - but I'm honest.