My husband of 5 years has always liked pulling out during sex and coming on my belly or breasts but has recently started to pull out and come in my mouth. I enjoyed doing it at first and thought it was kinda hot but now he’s wanting to go on my face! I want to please him in every way but I don’t know if I should do this or not? I’ve always thought it was a porn thing and just curiou Is this something that real married couples do? I just don’t want it to become the one and only way that he finishes.
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Want to know what makes SUPER hot sex?
Open communication - talk to him. It doesn't have to be uncomfortable or serious - you can keep things fun and sexy, while still communicating.
Like telling him how you thought it was hot, or asking why he likes it.
Open communication - talk to him. It doesn't have to be uncomfortable or serious - you can keep things fun and sexy, while still communicating.
Like telling him how you thought it was hot, or asking why he likes it.
JJ812;19606281I think it’s mostly a guy thing since most girls aren’t into a guys stuff when it lands anywhere other than the vagina. I enjoy the spontaneity and everything but I guess I’m just curious if any other girls let their guy do this. [/QUOTE said:
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Yeah it's not worth it, guilty of that. I even shot myself once, so I know the feeling!
Vision is sacred >.<!
Pull out and aim for her belly. Or if she's willing, put it in her mouth.
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It's up to you if you don't want to, then don't. if you're fine with it, then do.
There's no should or shouldn't since it's okay not to just as it's okay to do that.
As to real married couples doing it, I started doing that from the age of 17 with my then girlfriend (who is now my ex-wife), as a consequence of not getting to her mouth in time after pulling out. Porn had nothing to do with it, I just thought she looked hot when splattered like that and she didn't mind it at all, so we kept doing it from time to time.
Following her I did that with some of other women as well.
While for the past 22 years I have given cum facials to my current (2nd) wife, who I have been happily married to for 19+ years.
That said we mix it up so it certainly isn't cum facials all of the time. So I will ejaculate inside her vagina or rectum, or I will ejaculate on her breasts, hair, on her face (or neck if I miss), or in her mouth.
When I ejaculate inside my wife's mouth she will sometimes swallow it straight or open her mouth after I've done to show me then swallow.
She will also show me then drool a little, suck it up then swallow. Or she will hold it in her mouth then slowly drool it onto her boobs for me, which looks really hot as it goes down her chin and then runs down her breasts.
Plus to add to variety I will give her a facial then, she will continue with oral so she gets some more of it in her mouth as well. Likewise I will also start to ejaculate inside her, then pull out and get her face which leaves a trail on her body up to her face, then I put myself in her mouth after that.
Plus after we're done my wife doesn't leave it to dry on her face, because she doesn't like how it feels when it dries afterwards.
As to not wanting that to be the only way your husband finishes. Tell him that, tell him to mix it up and that you want variety. Since doing the same thing all of the time can be boring.
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There is a definite thrill about finishing on OR in someone. The more the female is disgusted by it, the less turned on I am. I know its not the greatest stuff to accept but its true; The more the female is disgusted by it, the less turned on I am.
Now, the question is... do you like it?
Dont worry about other people. There are people out there that do some really crazy wacky **** but they like it... so let them do it.
Porn always get blamed for facials... and while I can agree with that, I also know that its more of a "look at the things you can do" type of thing. I actually don't enjoy facials and porn is not changing my opinion of it... Porn introduced me to the possibility of facials but it did not make me addicted to it or thrilled by it.
Now, the question is... do you like it?
Dont worry about other people. There are people out there that do some really crazy wacky **** but they like it... so let them do it.
Porn always get blamed for facials... and while I can agree with that, I also know that its more of a "look at the things you can do" type of thing. I actually don't enjoy facials and porn is not changing my opinion of it... Porn introduced me to the possibility of facials but it did not make me addicted to it or thrilled by it.
Happily married almost 20 years and my husband seldom finishes inside me (except for when we were trying to get pregnant). He usually prefers to finish in my mouth or on my chest, or on my back if we are doing doggy style. It feels like perfectly normal sex to me, because that's the way we've always done it. A few years ago he sheepishly asked to give me a facial but was so afraid that it would be "disrespectful" to me. I really didn't care and it doesn't bother me in the slightest except a couple of times I've gotten semen in my eye.
My only rule is that he warns be before a facial. People aren't kidding about how much it stings if it gets in your eye.
My only rule is that he warns be before a facial. People aren't kidding about how much it stings if it gets in your eye.
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:rofl::rofl::rofl: And we still don't have to buy Q-tips to this day.
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I always wonder why it's a matter of not doing what they do in porn. I guess it's a fear of losing his respect for you? Otherwise, it's up to each of you and if you don't want to do that, just tell him and discuss it. If that is, you can discuss these things with him.
If you haven't discussed these types of things, there's no time like the present.
If you haven't discussed these types of things, there's no time like the present.
For me, I find cumming outside the V a bit unsatisfactory so we have only done it on purpose a few times. The only "facial" was accidental when I was in the bath and then she came into the room and proceeded to wank me off. Despite warning her I was about to cum, she carried on and it hit her in the face and hair. It was a lot more funny than erotic and we both laughed uncontrollably and although she didn't mind cum on her face, nose and ears and laughed even more when she saw herself in the mirror. Then she realised she was going to have to wash her hair again and she was not so amused.
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Hi JJ, I've always just left it up to the guy where he wants to "finish". Personally, I can't imagine trying to make rules for where a guy can and cannot "finish". I just always let guys do it where they wanted to. I found it exciting to not know where or when it was coming.
My husband is very predictable and he only finishes in my V. Oh well.
I think some men can be a bit too predictable because they are not sure where boundaries may lay. I prefer cumming a tight passage or squeezed in the cleavage can be nice so finishing outside is not top of my agenda. My wife prefers I surprise her rather than check with her, but I would hesitate to cum on her face unless I knew she would like it which I'm guessing she wouldn't.
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I've always been very submissive so the idea of a guy checking with me first would be a turn off. Much hotter if he just does what he wants to do.
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OMG, you ladies are killing me. I'm gonna cry on my pillow tonight. 
Anyway, after you got me thinking, I remembered, "Not the hair! Not the hair!" :laugh:
Do you know how hard it is to hear that and make sense of it at the split second before it happens? I didn't know what to do. :laugh:
I'm laughing my head off right now.
"Damn, honey. Now we have to start all over again." :laugh: "I can "suffer" through it again. Can you?" "Smart ass", she said.
Anyway, after you got me thinking, I remembered, "Not the hair! Not the hair!" :laugh:
Do you know how hard it is to hear that and make sense of it at the split second before it happens? I didn't know what to do. :laugh:
I'm laughing my head off right now.
"Damn, honey. Now we have to start all over again." :laugh: "I can "suffer" through it again. Can you?" "Smart ass", she said.
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I don't understand such passivity and hesitance.
In my experience one can have a far richer sex life by being forward, talking about it and not presuming anything.
For example there was a time I presumed my wife would be disgusted by my desire to pee on her as a sexual thing. Yet instead of continuing to presume that, I told her what I wanted to do and asked her to consider it then get back to me. Then to my surprise and against my presumption, after doing some reading on it she said yes. As a consequence of that she's fine with it, so from time to time (when I have consumed enough water so it is tasteless) I sometimes pee inside her mouth, on her face, her hair, breasts and well anywhere I like before, during and or after sex.
I get to enjoy a smorgasbord of sexual pleasures with my wife, because I don't guess that my wife wouldn't do something.
As a consequence of finding out instead of presuming that my wife wouldn't want to do something. I get to enjoy oral sex from my wife, plus prostate massages for me including with oral sex. Rimming from her, anal sex for her, fisting for her, cum facials for her, golden showers on her. Flashing from her while we're out, having her not wear undies with light dresses in summer, sex outdoors when we have an opportunity, having sex in cars while parking. Taking pictures of her wearing cum facials, filming us having sex, taking erotic photos of her at home, taking pictures of her flashing while out. Filming her getting golden showers, filming her peeing at a beach. Plus a variety of other things as well, that wouldn't be happening if I didn't mention them.
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Really!!!???
I pull out to splatter my wife because I think she looks sexy with her face dripping from my stuff afterwards. Yet I don't suffer from performance anxiety or have any problems or hesitation letting go inside my wife's vagina or rectum.
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In such moments I would just go for it anyway.
That said when it comes to the hair, I do sometimes ask if she's going to wash her hair, so that I know it will be a non issue.
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I disagree. I think its a tale tell sign of not wanting a child
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A condom is a tale tell sign of not wanting children
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i think you put a snorkel and mask under your pillow and pop it on real quick when he's about to.
either he'll love it, or your problem will be solved. it'll make for a good story either way
either he'll love it, or your problem will be solved. it'll make for a good story either way
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i been pulling out since I remember. gets to be a habit and keeps things fresh down there as well.
there's no feeling like the few times i haven't and see her face and know she's concerned, then i'm concerned....2 weeks of waiting just cause you didn't pull out.
it's the norm IMO
there's no feeling like the few times i haven't and see her face and know she's concerned, then i'm concerned....2 weeks of waiting just cause you didn't pull out.
it's the norm IMO
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