I have been married for only 6 months. We have 2 kids from previous marriages, the same age. We are in our late 30's. He recently told me quit my job due to me going back to school full-time. He said I would not have enough time for school, and him and the kids if I worked also. There was a guy at my work that was hitting on me and causing problems with me. I thought I could talk to my husband about it but it backfired and he told me to quit because of him and my school. He also has to know where I am going all the time. He gets upset if I dont meet him at the door when he comes home from work, just weird things like that. We have always had our fianances separate, but we did our taxes and he had it put in his account and keep it. 6000 of it was mine from school loans. I feel I should get it and told him, he said he would write me a check and never did, he said he would keep it in his account now that I dont have a job, that he will save it so I can live off it til I get my degree in a year and get another job. Sorry this is long, but I am confused as to "what" his motivation really is. I did quit my job because I did not need it, and I do need to focus on school right now. So it wasnt cause of him. But he is being very weird lately.