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Uh..Rubixed Cubed "What do you expect him to do, pin her down and make her listen? Yeah ... Nah."
That's exactly it. I'm not going to sit her down and tell her all the horrible things her mom did until she wants to know. She has been clear to me she doesn't want to talk about it. I'm confident I'm doing it the right way. My daughter KNOWS I tell the truth, she's had 20 years of it. When she wants it all, she will ask and it will be in HER time, not mine.
My refi might go through by end of next week - in 2 weeks time, my ex will have $100,000 for her to pay all her back bills, credit cards, get a new apartment (he cousin is telling her to leave the free condo she's in, don't know exactly all that went down there but it has to do with lying about her boyfriend) ..... she will have money and that'll make her temporarily happy. My son still hate her, nothing I can say is changing his view of her and truthfully, I cannot argue with him. She's a low down, cruel, selfish, prideful, manipulative woman who uses anyone and everyone to get what she needs. I don't want those kinds of people in my life - my son doesn't either.
What your son, your daughter's brother..... knows, she knows 'now' for sure.
Siblings talk, and they share the truth.
Don't assume for a minute that the daughter knows, little.
She does not want to talk about it because it is damn painful to hear this crap about her mother.
The God awful truth hurts worse, those whose love is/was strongest.