Hi
Am new here, have joined the forum because I have put my sweet wife in such a tough situation.
We have just completed a month of our wedding, at this stage both of us are staying in different countries while i am waiting for her to come over.
Last weekend, i visited a strip club with a friend. She knew about it and she was fine with it. At the strip club I ended up getting a lap dance, and then left the place immediately.
Why did i do it? Because i was too curious, i had never seen a lapdance, in fact it was the 2nd time i had been to a strip joint. And my buddy got one and said its no big deal. But it was a very awkward experience for me. I do not want to experience it again.
I returned, told my sweetie everything upfront on phone. Afterall i had always maintained that i would be transparent.
The poor girl has not been able to talk to me properly ever since. She says she keeps on picturing this woman over me and she will not be able to move past.
I feel terrible, i have hurt the person i value the most in life. I do not know how to move past this. I wish i could go back in time and undo it, but i cannot.
What do i do to make things right.
Am new here, have joined the forum because I have put my sweet wife in such a tough situation.
We have just completed a month of our wedding, at this stage both of us are staying in different countries while i am waiting for her to come over.
Last weekend, i visited a strip club with a friend. She knew about it and she was fine with it. At the strip club I ended up getting a lap dance, and then left the place immediately.
Why did i do it? Because i was too curious, i had never seen a lapdance, in fact it was the 2nd time i had been to a strip joint. And my buddy got one and said its no big deal. But it was a very awkward experience for me. I do not want to experience it again.
I returned, told my sweetie everything upfront on phone. Afterall i had always maintained that i would be transparent.
The poor girl has not been able to talk to me properly ever since. She says she keeps on picturing this woman over me and she will not be able to move past.
I feel terrible, i have hurt the person i value the most in life. I do not know how to move past this. I wish i could go back in time and undo it, but i cannot.
What do i do to make things right.