My husband and have been separated for 5 mos. I have been trying to work things out but Im still hurt my is affairs. Now he has entered into a relationship with a 20 year old (he is 14 years her senior). He works on the road and she has left school to join him. He will not communicate with me. The few times I have I point blank ask him what he plans on doing as far as our marriage goes. He does not respond. Others ask and he does not respond. The last time I talked to him I asked him again if he wants to work on our marriage, if not Ill even file for divorce with no hard feelings. His response to this question is "what do you mean?". He goes on to say that he does not know what will happen in the future. Now Im hearing from his family members that he is trying to have a child with this girl and he plans on purchasing a home with her in another state. Why wont he tell me this so I can move on? He is being cruel on purpose by stringing me along playing with my feelings? He knows I want us to get back together. If he plans on staying with her why cant he tell me so I can try to move on and be happy instead of hoping he will return? Or does he not know what he wants to do?