36 year old married for over 17 years., my husband is a great man to me and to the children and was always helpful in the house and took care of everything, but 4 years ago he started working out and changed, now he does nothing in the house I have to be mom and dad to the children, he only thinks about himself, all he does is work, eat, sleep and workout.. and shop, but lately he is hiding his cell, he starts work at 4 and leaves the house at 2 ( he only has a 35 min drive). he is different i cant stand him anymore and feel sorry for him, i am good on my own but dont know if divorce is the way to go!