My husband and I have been through a lot. I feel like I have forgiven and brushed things under the rugged more than I should have these last 8 years. The most recent event is that I caught him sexting an ex girlfriend that he has refused to end contact because of past events. I don't know how to trust him now. I kicked him out of the house. I said if you can't think of how to fix this, leave and come back when you do. Now all I want to do is call him and see if he's ok. Why isn't he begging to come back? I always tell him what he needs to do to fix it a and he just repeats what I say, but never follows through. All I want is for him say he's sorry, tell the skank that he doesn't want anything more to do with her and tell me he won't do it again. Is that so hard? Am I really being that unreasonable?