OK, Ive been married almost 10 years and Im very happy. But lately, I just dont want to have sex! My hubbys belly has grown so much and its a major turn off. When he gets naked, all I see is this enormous belly and I just cant get into having sex! Its just NOT sexy! I work really hard to stay slim and my belly is perfectly flat...do I tell him that this is why I dont want to have sex? I have told him to join the gym and have been on him for a few years already but he works a lot and doesnt seem willing to fit the gym into his schedule.... Am I being too superficial? I love him, he is a wonderful man.... 