I agree. It used to really annoy me if guys were focused on whether I was having an orgasm to the point of talking and distracting me about it. Because if they're talking and making me feel self-conscious ain't nothing good going to come of that.OP, Just a side note: many women don't orgasm from intercourse alone, and some aren't able to do so during it (PIV) on a consistent basis or at all. Don't put pressure on her to orgasm during intercourse or at the same time as you. I know that seems to be the norm in movies or porn, but reality is often different. Doesn't mean it isn't amazing. There are plenty of ways to get her to O...hopefully once you both figure that out, it will be a game-changer for her.