How to seduce a man

Saw a meme which was, “Go to the lumber section of Home Depot and stand around looking confused.” Very sexist, but it would work.

Tell him you'd rather eat pizza and watch TV than talk.

All these comments seem to be playing up to the assumed male stereotype. What about the shy types or those who don't respond to the cliched moves?

Or is this all about getting the man's attention after he's been landed? The article seems to be a bit of both.

Very shy men could have a lot to offer in a relationship, but might only be possible to seduce him within a relationship.

Flirting or touch would even now make me extremely uncomfortable outside a relationship. Within a relationship it takes only a smile and I melt or go into full testosterone mode depending on the situation.

Im different to most men it seems 🙄

I appreciate touch too but I just want it more subtle as I enjoy sexual tension more than just sex itself. Sex is just boring salami slapping to me otherwise, which is sadly 90% of the time for me with HD spouses. So within a relationship I would love to be seduced as well.

RandomDude said:

Sex is just boring salami slapping to me

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LOL!

Want to say something witty but I got nothing.

ccpowerslave said:

Saw a meme which was, “Go to the lumber section of Home Depot and stand around looking confused.” Very sexist, but it would work.

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It does, and I didn't even do it on purpose.

frusdil said:

How to seduce a man?

I'm going to take a stab in the dark here and say take your clothes off. Extra points if you bring beer.

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That's too easy. Not much of a challenge.

Apparently, just wear a tight pair of jeans with the hair down. According to my date this afternoon.

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Apparently, just wear a tight pair of jeans with the hair down. According to my date this afternoon.

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I'm not much for long hair. Jeans that hint on the landscape underneath, however... 🥴

When I was getting to know my wife to be, we were visiting one of her friends and she lifted her long hair up away from her neck. I was keeping the relationship platonic, but that almost did me in. RrrrOwwwr! 😛

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Apparently, just wear a tight pair of jeans with the hair down. According to my date this afternoon.

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High pony tail with exposed neck, high heels and professional attire is my kryptonite. Along with her stride. Yet that's just the physical appeal.

Laurentium said:

I think smiling is a key point. I'm not attracted to scowling women.

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How about pouting women?

One time I was standing in line at a fast food restaurant along with a female co worker. Without warning she backed up into me in a snuggle and put on a pouty expression.

Personally, pouting is not something I find attractive or interesting so I did not find her seductive.

Julie's Husband said:

Personally, pouting is not something I find attractive or interesting

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Same for me.

Laurentium said:

Same for me.

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Nor for women!

Laurentium said:

I think smiling is a key point. I'm not attracted to scowling women.

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I think looking approachable as a key characteristic to being attractive. But I tell you I'm one of those people who had resting b**** face and there are a lot of us out there who have to really go out of our way to not look unapproachable.

DownByTheRiver said:

I think looking approachable as a key characteristic to being attractive.

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Thanks, "approachable" is a better way to put it.

Lots of eye contact when talking. Maybe a light touch to the forearm. Smiles. Listening.

For me, one of the sexiest things a woman can wear is a smile.
That being said, if my wife of 20+ years wants my attention, all she has to do is pop on a thong.
Light touches don't work imho, at least not for me/us. We touch all the time.
Matter of fact last night on the couch my wife started stroking my forearm. Didn't know she was randy until she said "You, me, in the shower tonight?"
Kind of our direct question for sex in front of the kids.