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All these comments seem to be playing up to the assumed male stereotype. What about the shy types or those who don't respond to the cliched moves?

Or is this all about getting the man's attention after he's been landed? The article seems to be a bit of both.

Very shy men could have a lot to offer in a relationship, but might only be possible to seduce him within a relationship.

Flirting or touch would even now make me extremely uncomfortable outside a relationship. Within a relationship it takes only a smile and I melt or go into full testosterone mode depending on the situation.
 

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Im different to most men it seems 🙄

I appreciate touch too but I just want it more subtle as I enjoy sexual tension more than just sex itself. Sex is just boring salami slapping to me otherwise, which is sadly 90% of the time for me with HD spouses. So within a relationship I would love to be seduced as well.
 

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Saw a meme which was, “Go to the lumber section of Home Depot and stand around looking confused.” Very sexist, but it would work.
It does, and I didn't even do it on purpose.
 

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Apparently, just wear a tight pair of jeans with the hair down. According to my date this afternoon.
I'm not much for long hair. Jeans that hint on the landscape underneath, however... 🥴

When I was getting to know my wife to be, we were visiting one of her friends and she lifted her long hair up away from her neck. I was keeping the relationship platonic, but that almost did me in. RrrrOwwwr! 😛
 

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I think smiling is a key point. I'm not attracted to scowling women.
How about pouting women?

One time I was standing in line at a fast food restaurant along with a female co worker. Without warning she backed up into me in a snuggle and put on a pouty expression.

Personally, pouting is not something I find attractive or interesting so I did not find her seductive.
 

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I think smiling is a key point. I'm not attracted to scowling women.

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I think looking approachable as a key characteristic to being attractive. But I tell you I'm one of those people who had resting b**** face and there are a lot of us out there who have to really go out of our way to not look unapproachable.
 

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Pouts must be on the out. Replaced by fishlips, perhaps.

This image is a fairly close likeness of my co worker's expression. And appearance. Maybe hers was a bit more defiant like telling the other folks in the joint "this is MY man". Me parecía que las chicanas lo tenían reducido a un arte

Carmen had a MUCH larger bosom, though. Sometimes I worried she might tip over forward with all the weight.

Clothing Joint Jeans Outerwear Arm
 

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For me, one of the sexiest things a woman can wear is a smile.
That being said, if my wife of 20+ years wants my attention, all she has to do is pop on a thong.
Light touches don't work imho, at least not for me/us. We touch all the time.
Matter of fact last night on the couch my wife started stroking my forearm. Didn't know she was randy until she said "You, me, in the shower tonight?"
Kind of our direct question for sex in front of the kids.
 
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