Dear long term survivor marriage couple, please be nice to me 
I love to come to this forum as I want to learn from 'senior' whom I love to call survivor, especially tips from couple who are success on their long term marriages.
I just returning home seeing PIL, husband's cousin and wife in the USA. Any how, lovely cousin's wife mentioning about this '7 years itch', am I naive or what, I never heard this term before entire of my life (yes, I'm coming from another planet
). She said she experience this 7 yrs itch and cost her 1st marriage.
Please, share your knowledge on this so we all can learn what is it, signs and how to deal with it. I'd love to hear some tips too etc.
ps: I just realize last Sept was our 7th year wedding anniversary, we both are almost 6 years differences. Husband already passing 40 and will be 50 soon (2nd puberty? am I right?). Even though hubby older than I'm, he isn't as wise and mature as I'm though he is 100 % responsible man. I respect him for that. This is one and only marriage for us. OMG! Am I going to have '2nd puberty' hubby and the same time '7 years itch' marriage? :banghead: :slap: HELLLLLPPPP!!!!!
I love to come to this forum as I want to learn from 'senior' whom I love to call survivor, especially tips from couple who are success on their long term marriages.
I just returning home seeing PIL, husband's cousin and wife in the USA. Any how, lovely cousin's wife mentioning about this '7 years itch', am I naive or what, I never heard this term before entire of my life (yes, I'm coming from another planet
Please, share your knowledge on this so we all can learn what is it, signs and how to deal with it. I'd love to hear some tips too etc.
ps: I just realize last Sept was our 7th year wedding anniversary, we both are almost 6 years differences. Husband already passing 40 and will be 50 soon (2nd puberty? am I right?). Even though hubby older than I'm, he isn't as wise and mature as I'm though he is 100 % responsible man. I respect him for that. This is one and only marriage for us. OMG! Am I going to have '2nd puberty' hubby and the same time '7 years itch' marriage? :banghead: :slap: HELLLLLPPPP!!!!!