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My wife and I have been married 8 years and together 12. About 2 years ago she had an affair with a coworker. We went to marriage counseling and all that. All has been good for the past 2 years but I can't seem to find a way to trust her. I haven't said anything to her about it but I secretly check on her and spy on her phone and whatnot. I haven't brought it up to her because aside from this everything is great. I just don't know what to do. I know the obvious thing would be to tell her how I feel but before I open that can of worms is like to have some ideas in my head that we could try