I pull most of the way out and just kind of tease her. Not all the way out, leave just enough in to give her sensation without me feeling so much of it. 30 seconds or so is all I need to quell the swell. Then I'm good to go on full steam. She tends to like all the variation anyway.
And bear in mind, not all women WANT to cum every time. Some like the build up. That's how my wife is. It took me years to wrap my mind around this but that's how she is.
And bear in mind, not all women WANT to cum every time. Some like the build up. That's how my wife is. It took me years to wrap my mind around this but that's how she is.