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Sorry Gents - I am 45 and am not the right one here. At this age how do we continue t o attract our mate? I am clearly breaking rules and the not right guy - just looking for help here. Thanks, Tommy
Lol!How old are you really? So far in your threads I've seen 40,45 and 50.
This is great advice though.I think it's more mental than anything else, short of being physically repulsive.
If she thinks your her protector, the guy she can rely on, the guy who takes care of her, you become the guy she can't live without, attempt to take care of yourself physically and mentally, she will be attracted to you.
If you push her away, have faults like laziness, drinking, drugs, unemployment (without actively looking for work), she won't be attracted to you.
Like TBT said, at what age?Sorry Gents - I am 45 and am not the right one here. At this age how do we continue t o attract our mate?
I bought the movie for her (yes I do have some confidence issues as i am 40 and not 22 with a tight six pack) because she wanted it and she commented on that...
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I am a man - 50 - i am divorced but found a girl who i am in love with and have been engaged with - for 4 years - we are engaged to be married in april
No a spouse is not "bound to join in". It is very common for one spouse to decide to improve their appearance, and fitness level, and the other spouse to sit around and feel bad about themselves even more because of it, or even worse, becoming bitter and sabotaging to the changing spouse.From my personal experience, if you look after yourself a spouse is bound to join in. Going to the gym, personal grooming, exercising, etc are all friendly-competitive things to do and my spouse normally joins in. We're funny like that.
To keep a woman hot for you the simples things (among many) are thus;Sorry Gents - I am 45 and am not the right one here. At this age how do we continue t o attract our mate? I am clearly breaking rules and the not right guy - just looking for help here. Thanks, Tommy
AMEN! LOL. It's interesting how even my ex wife's friends made passes at me and AFTER we divorced they suddenly find the time to send me text messaged "offering to talk if I feel like it". Yea right......thanks but no thanks lolHave at least $2 billion. With that, you could be an ugly, fat, lazy, drug addicted, drunk, sexless, cross-dressing midget and you won't be able to get the morning paper without stepping over women trying to get in.
Yep! And they're JUST the KIND of women you WANT TO step over!Have at least $2 billion. With that, you could be an ugly, fat, lazy, drug addicted, drunk, sexless, cross-dressing midget and you won't be able to get the morning paper without stepping over women trying to get in.