My Husband and I have only been married 5 months but have been together about 2-3 years. I don't know how to handle this. I moved in with him after our daughter was born in 2011. For the most part things were going great. I was using his computer for me and I discovered under his book marks porn sites. I understand men are men and get the urge to look at it sometimes... I never realized how much he looked at it till I started digging. He was going on just about every night. Then I found he was also going on the cam sites. Web cam models, to me that's not porn to me. that is pretty much having someone doing a lap dance in your home. He also pays for this stuff. So I confronted him about it distraught and I thought it had stopped.... yeah ok. He ended up finding a differen't one and going on that one. So now being 5 months married and in a second pregnancy I am stressed to no end because our sex life is like once every 2 weeks or less... sometimes once a month. In the last week I caught him jerking off to it twice. Once while we were kinda upset with each other and of course that made things worse.... and then last night. I am hurt by this cause I don't understand how jerking off can be more satisfying then being with me. I love him and don't want this to tear us apart. But everytime I have tried to talk to him about it he says I am being ridiculous. Then today when I found out I messaged him angerly and when I told him why he says I am retarded! how can you say that about your wife. I just need help trying to get this handled I have mentioned counseling of course that just blew up in my face. Has anyone else dealt with this? can anyone give me a idea how to go about it. I have about 7 hours til he gets home from work... and maybe talk about it then... if not I don't know when were going to.