@MMH, you know after over 20 years of marriage raising kids supporting an abusive husband don’t you think it ought to be about her? Too often women wake up in their late 40s and 50s and realise they have poured themselves out for husband kids, parents etc, made sacrifices, put up with all manner of **** only to find that at the end of the day no one really gives a damn about all the sacrifices, hard work etc. When the nurturing hormones drop and their eyes are opened to the real state of affairs, too right they put themselves first. For years they are raised on fed on the BS that they are the centre of the family, they are the nurturers, etc. Enough already! Let @WandaJ find her bliss, she deserves it and it’s her right! So quit your misogynist bs!Uh, what?
Maybe go back and read her threads?