I may be jumping the gun here, but there may be a chance that my ex husband and I could try reconciling. My question is, how do you deal with the negative reactions from the other people in your life? My ex hurt me pretty badly, but instead of hating him, I have remained in love with him this whole time. I know that the people who love me are going to be telling me what a mistake it is, how stupid it is, that I am going to be hurt again, etc. If R is possible, I just really feel that this is something that I need to do, if things play out. I do realize that I may be setting myself up to be hurt again, I am not that naive. Any suggestions on how to deal with others not being supportive?