My husband and I have been happily married for 34 years. We love each other very much and enjoy each others company. We haven't had sex for almost 2 years. My husband used to take Viagra but it stopped working, so we just stopped having sex. I'm going through menopause, so my sex drive has been low anyway. Well, my husband was recently in the hospital and asked me to bring him his laptop from home and to put it in his briefcase. This is how I found an empty bottle of Viagra. It has been filled twice in the last month. He has not made any overtures to me during this time. I just don't know how to ask him about it. Why would he be taking it if it doesn't work anymore? I feel the moment the words come out of my mouth, our lives will never be the same. He is gone at least 2 nights a week for work, but he calls me every day and acts loving toward me as he always has. He kisses me and tells me he loves me, but we don't have sex. I'm just so afraid of what he'll say, that it's been almost a week now and I still haven't brought it up. I know I need to, but I don't know how to start.